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The new Minnesota Children’s Museum is opening in a few weeks and I’m incredibly excited not only for my kids but for myself too (stay tuned for some adults only nights at the museum).
I truly wish I had this opportunity as a child – to explore, discover, and to be completely un-inhibited. To be able to test my limits, tell crazy stories, and be silly in such a safe and supportive environment.
The space is also geared towards educating parents in a very do-able and non-intrusive way about how to support play at the museum and at home – and a great reminder to observe more and let my kids explore and figure things out on their own.
There will be less instructions on “how things work” so be prepared to tinker and explore yourself (this was difficult for me at first as I LOVE instruction booklets and tutorials, but a great lesson in letting go and re-learning how to play as an adult).
One exhibit that I wanted to highlight that’s one of my early favorites (there are 10 total exhibits) is Super Awesome Adventures – an opportunity to be SuperWoman, Batman and every other super-hero in between!
First, there’s the Ninja Laser Maze with a practice bamboo course outside – this is sure to be a hit and a great way to encourage kids to be courageous to test their limits (and test their super spy skills), and be persistent in exploring different possibilities to successfully navigate the maze.
There’s also a Carpet Skate Park – which is an immersive full body experience complete with ramps & bumps so it feels like you are skating in outer space!
For kids who love to tell stories and pretend fly and jump off cliffs – there’s an awesome Green Screen with climbing wall (just like the movies)! This is a wonderful opportunity for kids to work together and collaborate to make-up stories. I find my kids make friends so much more fluidly than I do as an adult, and it’s a nice opportunity to observe how they interact with others.
There’s quite a bit more in this exhibit including Balancing Boards – to avoid the dangers below (crocodiles or lava – the themes will rotate every few months).
This is just ONE exhibit of 10 - there is so much else to explore and discover (including 2 outdoor areas).
And YES - capes are included!
In celebration of the pending opening, I’m giving away a family 4 pack of tickets to explore the museum ($52 value) on Instagram and Facebook. Head on over to Instagram (@tumblewalla) or Facebook (@tumblewalla) for all the details!
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On Monday of this week, the Minnesota Children’s Museum gathered together a group of like-minded play enthusiasts – professors, librarians, bloggers, influencers and moms who all share a passion for injecting more play into our everyday. We also had an opportunity to preview the upcoming exhibits/construction for the new museum which is going to be a blast (more info down below)!
Most participants in the room were in agreement re: the profound benefits of play – it’s a continuous struggle of HOW to squeeze more of it into our days. We’re tired, our kids are over-scheduled, there’s so much home-work and pressure to get-ahead – and the benefits of play don’t always seem as immediate as mastering words on a spelling test. A big takeaway from this seminar was that we absolutely need each other - to help ensure play is always top of mind, and to share what’s working (and what doesn't work so well) for our own families with regards to play.
And so in this spirit – I wanted to share some tips that I’ve found helpful in my own #playmoremn journey:
- One of the major changes I’ve made is to view “play” not as another “to-do,” but as relaxing and a sweet treat for the entire family (e.g. I don't always need to pretend play the myriad of characters from Thomas and Friends). I try to engage my kids in play activities that we ALL find enjoyable – otherwise, it’s easy to default to the TV.
Book Nook: I borrowed this idea from my son’s read-in at school which sounded heavenly (pillows, flashlights, snacks and books for an entire day)! Sometimes I put blankets over our couch and create a make-shift book-nook. The kids find the fort delightful and quickly stock-pile it with books, and I’m able to get some reading time in as well. Perfect for those after dinner "what do we do before bedtime" moments.
Tub of Old Toys: I know some parents rotate toys out each month – this requires a level of organization and planning that I don’t possess. Instead, I pull out toys in the morning (for that same evening) that haven’t been played with for an extended time and viola – the kids have a blast AND I can relax. I enjoy simply observing the kids at play (and working to negotiate with one another) vs. always being an active participant.
Get Moving: This takes some motivation, but once we are moving, it’s worth it. This is why I love dance and movement games (Hullabaloo and Musical Chairs are good ones) as it’s easy – the kids burn off energy and I find it gives me another much needed burst of energy before bed-time.
Early Bed Time: This is my absolute favorite. Getting the kids dressed and ready for bed before 7PM is hugely satisfying (the hard stuff like brushing teeth and baths is out of the way). We than all snuggle up in bed reading books or just being silly (flashlights are awesome for bed-time reading). If they fall asleep – bonus!
I’m trying to make little changes each day – and thanks to this group of Play Enthusiasts and the support of the Minnesota Children's Museum– I have a community to help make this more my reality each day!
...And as I promised in the beginning of this post, expect to be blown away by the new museum – a carpet skateboard park, laser maze, pool noodle forest, stop motion gallery, a fire station and 2 story post-office (even better than the real thing) and amazing outdoor areas – can’t wait for June!
Photo Credit: Minnesota Children's Museum
Photo Credit: Minnesota Children's Museum
Photo Credit: Minnesota Children's Museum
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Step One: Find two pipe cleaners (2 different colors work best)!
Step Two: Fold the first and make a loop a little off center - big enough to fit 2 fingers through...
Step Three: Twist the ends together to secure the loop.
Step Four: Wrap the second pipe cleaner up through the inside of the base of the loop and begin wrapping around the handle in spirals, like a peppermint candy cane!
Step Five: Once you've reached the end of the handle, cut the pipe cleaner with just a little edge left and tuck the end into the spiral to protect any little hands from the pokey ends.
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Every year, I accumulate mountains of summer camp brochures promising enriching, life-changing, once in a lifetime and endlessly fun experiences for my kiddos. Planning 90 days of activities plus coordinating camps with other parents, carpools, pick-ups, and remembering to spray down my kids with bug repellent and sunscreen gets old after week two.
At the end of each summer, I berate myself for signing up for the camp madness, and re-commit to making life easier next year. However, once spring rolls around, my FOMO (fear of missing out) takes over, and I succumb to the happy camper pictures, as I can’t stomach the thought of my child missing out. Not to mention – I love the feeling of getting the summer schedule organized and camp registrations complete – it’s strangely satisfying.
In order to truly re-commit to making life easier for next year – I’ve decided to write down my notes before the rosy haze of post summer “bliss” sets-in, so I remember how everything really went:
1. Anything that's billed as a "Star Wars" camp is over-rated.
Let me translate. "Star Wars" camp is making light sabers out of pool noodles and duct tape, playing "ships across the galaxy" (a clever adaption of "ships across the ocean"), and coloring lots of droids.
2. Shuttling kids sucks - even in the summer. Pick stuff close by.
3. Say NO to anything that requires more than 5+ pieces of equipment.
This includes hockey, baseball, and ice-skating. Trying to dress a small child in sticky, humid weather is not fun. Add another crying kid (or 2) and it gets worse. Stick with soccer, swimming, basketball, or tennis.
4. Camps always involve more parent time than advertised.
Why do week-long camps end with an hour long talent show (during the middle of the day)? Sure – it’s cute – but, is it necessary? If you don’t go, your kid will remember this moment forever, and if you do go, its 2 hours that that I hadn’t accounted for at the beginning of the week that is now causing significant stress.
5. Expensive doesn’t mean better.
Just because you’re asked to shell out more money, doesn’t mean the experience will be 5 stars – kids find joy in simple things. While building elaborate STEM contraptions sounds cool – sometimes, playing with an empty Amazon cardboard box for hours can be even better.
6. Summer Fun Math Camp does not involve much “math” or “fun.”
A three hour intense academic math camp = one hour of eating (lunch + two 15 minute snack breaks), ½ hour free-time on playground, 30 minutes of color-by-numbers, and 30 minutes of math worksheets. I won’t be fooled again.
7. Home is OK too!
I’ve had to be more creative in the summer, as camps can cost a small fortune. Sometimes, I feel guilty about my kids being home so much – but home is their connection point. It’s where they feel safe and grounded. My kids (like us adults) need their downtime – and home is a great place to unwind.
8. Sometimes the best moments are spontaneous.
Despite my type A, plan-everything-always, personality, I find some of our most joyous moments are last minute and easy…fishing (and kissing the fishes), making chocolate brownies, or a surprise run-in with friends at the park (this ALWAYS makes my kids day).
9. If you're not comfortable with the activity planned - don't do it.
Wait another year. Admittedly – a bunch of high-school kids (while completely well intentioned) watching loads of kids especially near water makes me uneasy. Even if everyone else is doing it - if it doesn't feel right - there's always next year.
10. Don’t worry about “falling behind” during the summer.
There is so much more to childhood development than math, reading, science and all the academic stuff – summer is all about exploration and discovery, and of course, play. I know I can easily get caught up in the “what if my child falls behind” mentality – but the reality is, just playing to have fun is critical. Remember, we have the whole school year to fret about “getting results”.
I don’t know if I’ll get swept up in the promise of camp season when next year rolls around, but I know I won’t be making the same mistakes, and, I’ll have a bit more perspective to be able to manage our schedules, and sanity, a bit better.